The PERFORM Experience

A 3-month 1:1 leadership intensive
with Tabby Kerwin MAPP

Grief doesn’t stop at the office door, and neither does its impact on the way you lead. You carry a lot. You hold the room together, you manage your team’s pressure and your own private world at the same time, and somewhere in that private world there is grief. Maybe the loss of a person. Maybe the loss of a role, an identity, relationship, or a version of yourself you thought you’d always be.

Grief is the most universal human experience in the workplace, and it is the one nobody has built a leadership framework for. The Grief-Informed Leader is that framework, delivered as bespoke, one-to-one work with consultant psychologist, Expert & TEDx speaker, CEO, Widow and grief expert Tabby Kerwin. It sits at the heart of our The PERFORM Experience consultancy work: the same expertise that reshapes organisations, brought directly to the individual leader.

Who it’s for

This is for leaders, formal or informal, who have experienced personal loss and know it has changed how they lead, even if they have never named it. It is particularly powerful for women in leadership who hold their teams together brilliantly while privately wondering whether they are holding themselves together at all. It is leadership coaching, not therapy. You are not broken. You simply want to integrate your grief experience into your leadership in a way that makes you stronger, not smaller.

The transformation

• Grief moves from something unexamined beneath your leadership to an integrated source of strength.
• You gain a grief-informed framework and language rather than leading on instinct alone.
• You build psychological safety around loss at every level of your team.
• Your lived experience of grief becomes your greatest leadership asset.
• You learn that grief is the greatest performance tool you had never been given.

The three-month arc

Month one, Excavate: understand what you are carrying.
Month two, Integrate: build your grief-informed leadership language and toolkit.
Month three, Lead: step fully into the leader grief has made you.
Every journey is bespoke, with regular 1:1 sessions, the PERFORM framework applied to you specifically, tailored tools between sessions, and direct access to Tabby throughout.

Investment

£9,000 for three months, in full or as three monthly instalments of £3,000. Maximum three clients at any one time, because your full attention matters. There is no application form, only a conversation.

email Tabby to discuss at tabbyk@theperformexperience.com